Happy Mothers Day

What a lovely day. Oooops not yet call MM, so I better do it right after this! Didn't get her anything this year but sent her a card.... she got it on time. We didn't plan anything special this time, sort of like just go-along the flow .. surprisingly had a gooooood massage from both DD & ANA! They were sooo good, hehe - oil btw! Had dim sum lunch @ DDF, met everyone else there, what a popular place! Got home, took the usual nap, did some work - house still clean so no need to clean so much :P Didn't plan for dinner either but last minute JL and I chat about HK TV series and such, one thing led to another, we had JL and STP over for dinner! They brought a lovely yummy cake and we had a very good time together -- precious times with family and friends, no money can buy for sure!

Laters in the night: Called MM & DD and ANA did a great job, sang many songs for Poh-poh! She must be real happy! She even sang very very loud - as though 'bo gam guan' (hokkien) hehe.. but, overall yeah MM is definitely happy to her from us and LG wished her too and chat with both MM and DD. I am so happy! Too bad, I think WG didn't organize anything for MM and so far no call too, last mth also never wished her or take her out on her bday .. poor Mama .. but I will help in other ways to see how to make her feel better although I know, it will never be the same! --- On the other side, we kept dialing for MIL... hey why phone engaged for so long! :P

Msg to everyone out there, including myself: Don't forget to wish you OWN Mom and your MIL ... for they have done so much and sacrificed so much, esp if you're a Mom or Dad yourself, you should know how precious they are, and if it wasnt for your Mom you wouldn't be where you are today and if it wasn't for your MIL, you wouldnt be able to find so much happiness with your other half now who took care of him/her with tender loving care! Show them you love today! Do you really think there's such thing as 'Oops I didn't know.., oops I was too busy'.. Its the thought that counts and if the thought isnt there, it isnt there. But you can always rectify thing if you have the heart. You can always say sorry, ask for forgiveness and make it up to her, but if you can even celebrate with other mothers and forget your own Mom and MIL, its really time to reflect on yourself. Even if you dont want to take them out, buy them something, at least - give her a call, for goodness sake!!! Phew! -- I hope that would help some 'busy, and stressed out people' out there who's very busy with their own life. Too bad I dont know how else to say it any nicer or better ... May sounds abit harsh but even if I was 'clouded' I wish someone would knock some senses in me! I also happen to notice that if we stick around with considerate and thoughtful people, after a while we too will be considerate and thoughtful - maybe that'll help! Thought its best we try to remind ourselves and beat all the negative influence around us hehe..