Consolidate Debts

One of those financial crisis situation. Must be the dog interfering with the dragon this year - boo hoo! This weekend we advertised to sell our place and we showed a few people our place this morning. It was a good day although the last few weeks I've been seriously facing serious financial shake-out! But KC and I managed to talk about it and I am really happy about it that we can deal with this together - you know how sensitive these issues are! So, whether we're into the dumps or not, doesn't really matter - as long as we both work on this together, towards positive cash flow - and if that means selling our place, we just have to go by it. What's installed in the future for us .. do we have a place to stay or can we afford to buy another .. I really don't know but its OK - most important, let's try to consolidate all existing debts. There's really alot to worry but it's never enough ... so I am happy at the end of the day, I don't leave all the burden to him and expect him to resolve it himself .. tougher and harder to deal with but alot of peace inside that we are doing this as a family because I have seen many people saving for themselves and pass on all the financial responsibilities (if ever possible) to the other half .... and bit by bit, all burden and debts accumulate by the other half ... that sounds like one saving at the expense of another! So, I try not to be like that .. and hope to be able to maintain that attitude .. though it would be nice if I don't have to worry about financials? Oh well ........ life goes on eh! Happy that we are all pretty healthy (erm... still need to f/up that blood check thing, hmmm) and have food, got shelter .. hmmm nice home -- oops gonna sell ... oh but I am sure there's a bunch!