Created To Be His Help Meet - Gift Of Wisdom

Chapter 5 - The Gift Of Wisdom - do you have enough fear of God not to question his Word?

1. It doesn't take a good man, or even a saved man, for a women to have a heavanly marriage, but it takes a women wiling to honor God by being the kind of wife God intended - It takes one women, willing to be a help meet - a suitable helper. You serve Christ by serving your husband, whether your husband deserves it or not - Hit it right on the spot -- whether he deserves it or not ... now I realize, women often put a condition on her man's love and somewhat look down upon him, therefore trying to put up alternatives and refuse to submit ... you see alot of working women out there .. of course, many have many reasons to work and at the end of the day fall short in fulfilling her main role as a good help-meet at home .. but one can also reason out the insecurity in women thinking perhaps if they work, they could save some extra money for rainy days, they could use a little extra for some of the things they like (that their husband may not like or approve of 100%) .. all these somewhat stem from not truly submitting and not truly believing in their other half .. if you really think about it .... and I am guilty as charged, which is why I am happy to learn that its time to change my mindset .. trust in LG 100% of his capabilities and submit (listen, obey and honor) his will (wishes) eventhough often I may not agree to it (have better ideas), and not trying to find (and execute!) private alternatives to my own worries.

2. You will need to take God at his word and become a help meet for his sake, knowing you are fulfilling your mission here on earth - you are being God's helper on earth - what a wonderful truth to know!! I really honestly never think of life this way .. not so much from God's perspective but I am so ever grateful to learn about my purpose here on earth, and same time discover the joy of a happy marriage!

3. You need the precious gift of wisdom to be able to hold your tongue and be thankful when your flest would strike back in anger - how true .. esp with women, not thinking that much before opening our mouths and next thing you know, saying things we don't mean during those bitter mouth battles!