Saying Stupid Things

Observe and think about it sometimes.. We all know sometimes people say stupid things, say things they don't mean, and still cont saying them, hurting people around them... Rather than taking it harshly and bad becomes worst.. why not ponder the source of it... Pple say stupid things when you make them defensive, this is logical ..so what next? We can't go on forever blaming them.. how about start our conversation well.. take preventive steps. Okay, this time, the conversation went ugly, nevermind, let it go. How about in the future, the very next time you have the opportunity to start a conversation? Plentiful .. yes, and remember to start the conversation right .. warm and friendly.. stand side-by side, pat his or her back a little, you can't go wrong...