Together We Stand

It's really true - Bersatu Kita Teguh, Bercerai Kita Roboh .. city life didn't give me much of that, but I can see and experience so much of the way how community live, and 'should live' in a much closely knit community.. there's really so much more sharing and less individual space, which means less self-centerdness.. after a while, it becomes such a natural thing for everyone to do, to share and let others share your life, and yet you don't feel that they are intruding your life, but you get to experience the joy of dependendness, truly a jewel for such connection. I think, att he end of the tunnel, I feel ANA is truly a very lucky girl, to have so many cousins and everyone loving each other in their own caring ways .. hope this will last and definitely would want ANA to learn to be one of them, one with good community spirit and helpfullness. Though she did demonstrate some 'individualistic' personality of hers, but I truly dont blame her .. roughly said, for her to have survived in such competitive environment at the daycare, it has shaped her personality too.. but I guess as parents, we can give her some balance, and that's when she's young. Glad we are able to see two sides of the cards :)