Aspire To Be Proverbs 31 Women!

I posted this on 7/8 this year and have since been thinking in my heart, if God would give me/us another chance to do it right, could it be Proverbs 31 women?! Yeah, deep inside, I have this aspiration to be one! God helped me get started by aspiring to be a good wife, a good mom - created to be "his" HELP-MEET, something I never aspire to be (not from that perspective for sure!), though I would tell myself, as long as I did this, as long as I did that - but these were measures and building blocks set by mere human mixed with worldly values.... Lord Jesus would never put us to walk through waters we cannot cross - and I believe the HELP-MEET session was the preliminary course, and soon to move on to another higher level (deeper waters) - before this, its almost impossible because of the working thing - same time helper (financially) too and learning to submit, learning to appeal, but most of all, Jesus is helping shape our marriage is the most miraculous ways! Now I see new signs and new hope, that we may be uprooted from the current conditions and thereby paving a way, removing barriers so God can help me be that person God wants me to be (or women for that matter!).

Thank you Lord for giving me hope that I can be the women you intended me to be! No matter how off-course I may be, you do not count all my mistakes but instead focus on building me up towards the right course. Thank you Lord for your grace!

A Women Gift From God
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1. Her Character As A Wife - The heart of her husband trust in her .... complete trust, integrity and full confidence in her ... Knows that she will not do anyting that will cause him pain ... she is absolutely trust worthy...... This leads to the fact that she is in-charge and be a steward of all his resources .... she helps him to profit, not loss ... because she cares about him, seeks his good. You want a women who's always seeking to build the husband up in all areas .. all the days of her lives is devoted to the well-being and success of her husband ... she never fluctuates, serves him ... she is committed to him, her love is so deep that never changes. His comfort, his reputation, his joy is her delight .... His highess good is her highest desire. Never unkind, always submissive but eager to be sure he walks with God. Desiring for him all that he should be.

2. Her Devotion As A Homemaker - She is the ruler of the house. She is full of energy for the dutiness of the home, no laziness .... She loves the people for whom she does it. Her hands are active after the pleasure of her heart .. She loves the people she serves, she loves the work because she loves her husband, loves her children .. willingly denies herself for the purpose of those whom she serves. She walks long distance to find something her family will enjoy ..... she takes a journey. She finds complete joy in serving the best for her family. She rises while it is still night and gives food to her household and portions to her maiden ... get up before dawn, pour oil before midnight. She's up long before her husband and children ... Eventhough she is a queen, she is still working, wake up early passing out tasks for the day. She manages the house. She's entrepreneur... she considers the field, makes the purchase! She purchases from her earnings and decides to plant a vineyard - good for her family - she starts her own little business always in the view that it will benefit for everybody. She makes wise investments... She makes her arms strong .. she's not soft, she's strong and become strong as a result of her efforts exerted in her daily tasks. She knows that all her efforts benefits everybody ... not motivated by self-fullfillment, self-indulgence. She makes sure her clothing is of fine linen ... she makes sure she looks elegant, takes care of herself in a way that impresses her husband. After all the hardwork, still make time to beautify herself for her husband.

3. Her Generosity As A Neighbor - She extends her hand to the poor and stretches out her hand of the needy. She demonstrates not only a special devotion to her own home but to those who are not in her home. She provides what they need. She goes to those with needs, not wait for others to come to her.

4. Her Influence As A Teacher - She is clothed with spiritual character. She has spiritual strengh and dignity - she is elevated above trivial things. She has true class, true virtue, she is spiritually strong .. she smiles at the future. She has no fear. Why? She knows her life is right with God and the promise of God is unfolding blessing. She knows in whom she trust.. she is faithful she is pure. She is delighted what is ahead .... Those who are afraid of the future are those who are guilty at the present. She opens her mouth in wisdom and literally the law of kindness is on her tongue .. she opens her mouth, she speaks wisdom and that wisdom comes with kindness. Her home is her classroom ... informal classroom, she is the teacher. The teaching of kindness, the law of God, the law of kindness ...... (mercy, grace) She teaches with grace. Behind the teaching of the law is the tempering of mercy .. the noble excellent women.

5. Her Effectiveness/Blessedness As A Mother - She gives her lives to her children. She exercises carefully survaillence over everything, she is not lazy .... they rise up and bless her and praise her. They hold her in high esteem, they reverance her .... she receives from her husband his supreme blessing.

6. Her Excellence As A Saint - Charm is deceitful, beauty is vain but a women who fears the Lord, she shall be blessed.

Source: The Proverbs 31 Women - Part 1, Grace To You